Heather is a former guest at St. John’s Ministries and frequent visitor at the Micah Center. Her strength, faith, and determination are inspiring. We are graced by Heather’s courage in sharing her story:
My entry into St. John’s Ministries came when I was leaving an abusive relationship. My son told me about St. John’s, and at the time, other shelters had waiting lists. I needed to leave immediately. My abuser had nearly killed me — my face had been completely black from the violence. I needed a safe place where I knew he couldn’t reach me.
The community doesn’t always understand that people in situations like mine are not all bad. We all have a story. I was in that relationship for over ten years before I came to the shelter.
I’ll always be grateful for St. John’s because they’ve been nothing but good to me. I remember my first night at the shelter — I was scared. But the staff really helped. They could tell I was nervous and kept checking in to make sure I was okay. Their kindness made me feel safe.
Leaving that relationship made me a stronger woman. I realized I don’t need a spouse to make things work — I can do this on my own. Right now I’m working two part-time jobs.
One thing I’ve learned is that what really matters is what I think and what God thinks. God has done a lot for me. I pray throughout the day and carry religious mementos with me.
I love the woman I am now because I have a voice, and I use it. I used to be silent and walk on eggshells, but now I stand strong.
The last year of my relationship was so scary, but I’m proud of myself for leaving. I’m incredibly grateful to those who support St. John’s Ministries. If this place didn’t exist, I don’t know where I’d be.
The number of women served has grown significantly since we opened the women-only shelter three years ago. Many have faced deep traumas and there is a strong desire to move forward. For every way you contribute — big or small — to our mission and impact, thank you.
